I've created this page in memory of a loved one.
Strides of Love– A Mother’s Journey Through the Sahara for Gem
On the 25th of November 2023, our lives changed forever. We lost our beloved son and hero, Gem, to suicide at the age of 31. The pain of his loss is indescribable—something no parent should ever have to endure. His absence has left a deep and lasting void in our hearts.
To honour Gem’s memory, I’ve committed to take on one of the most gruelling endurance events on earth: the Marathon des Sables Legendary. This ultramarathon, taking place in the Sahara Desert from the 3rd to the 13th of April 2026, spans 250 kilometres over six consecutive stages—across sand dunes, rocky plains, and scorching temperatures—all while carrying my own food and gear for the entire race.
I’m not an athlete. I’ve never done anything like this before. But I will push through every blister, every step, and every challenge—not powered by adrenaline, but by the pure and unwavering love of a mother. My goal is not just to reach the finish line, but to carry Gem’s spirit with me every step of the way.
During the darkest time of our lives, Rethink Support After Suicide service became a lifeline. Their care, compassion, and guidance have meant more than words can express. Now, I’m raising funds so that Rethink Mental Illness Charity can continue this vital work, helping other families and friends devastated by suicide.
💛 Please support this journey in memory of Gem.
Your donation—no matter how big or small—will make a meaningful difference. Together, we can ensure that no one has to navigate this pain alone. Help us raise awareness, offer support, and honour the lives of those lost too soon.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Ylang Fernandez Lowman
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